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The Beauty Myth: Why Beauty is Subjective, Not Absolute


Editor's Note:

It’s time to dismantle the beauty myths that have held us hostage for far too long. Every individual carries a unique beauty that the world desperately needs. Let’s celebrate real beauty—the kind that can’t be packaged, sold, or stolen.


By Dr. Dwight Prentice

 In every generation, society has loudly proclaimed certain ideals of beauty: the “perfect” face shape, the “ideal” body type, the “flawless” complexion. But pause for a moment and ask—who decided what beauty is?

And even more importantly, why do we believe them?

I can tell you with confidence that beauty is not an absolute reality—it is purely subjective.

What captivates one person's eyes might completely go unnoticed by another.
Cultures differ. Personalities differ. Preferences differ. Yet society continues to promote a narrow, unrealistic, and often unattainable standard of beauty that leaves countless individuals feeling inferior, invisible, or "not enough."

This flawed system is more than unfair—it’s deeply damaging.


The Real Problem: Who Sets the Standard?

At the heart of the beauty scam lies a painful truth: The standard of beauty we chase is not divine; it is manufactured.
Media corporations, advertising companies, and industries that profit from insecurity have long dictated what we should find attractive.
Each generation is given a new "ideal," making it clear: beauty trends are built to be broken—and sold.

By making beauty a moving target, the world ensures an endless cycle of dissatisfaction. It's a crafty manipulation that sells products but steals self-worth.

But here's the logical truth:
If beauty truly were absolute, it would not change from era to era, culture to culture, or person to person.
Yet it does.
Constantly.
Which proves: beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder—not in the pages of a magazine.


The Devastating Impact of This Scam

Generations have grown up doubting their value based on subjective opinions.
Self-esteem, confidence, even life opportunities are often unfairly shaped by arbitrary beauty standards.
Children are learning from an early age to judge themselves harshly against a false ideal—and the consequences are devastating: anxiety, depression, eating disorders, and chronic insecurity.

Society’s mistaken idea of "who is beautiful" has left millions battling a war they were never meant to fight. Think about it, every mother believes when she first laid eyes on her baby, she saw the most beautiful baby. So the question we want to ask is; then who gave birth to the "ugly babies"?


How We Break the Cycle

  • Teach early: Let young people know early on that beauty is diverse, personal, and sacred.

  • Affirm worth: Celebrate individuality, character, and kindness—not just appearance.

  • Stop comparing: Understand that comparison is the enemy of joy and the thief of confidence.

  • Anchor identity: Root your self-image in timeless truths, not changing trends.

  • Redefine beauty: Value integrity, compassion, creativity, and resilience as some of the highest forms of beauty.

Above all, remember the wisdom found in the Creator’s manual:

"Do not let your adornment be external—the braiding of hair and the wearing of gold ornaments... but let it be the secret person of the heart."
(New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures, 1 Peter 3:3-4)

True beauty shines from within—and no trend can ever dim that light.

Conclusion:

Beauty isn't a checklist. It’s not something you acquire—it’s something you already are.
You are beautifully crafted, purposefully made, and breathtakingly original.
Never let a broken society define your worth.
You are beautiful—by design.

As always, Life is simple, there no need to complicate it!

SLMindset



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